Fact: Today, as it seems, is Pancake Day. Pancakes, as you could probably tell by the title, were invented by pansexuals long ago. Because of this, it is a significant Pansexual Anniversary. Today is the day we rise.
(R:) Pancakes: cakes originally designed to express potential interest in cakes of all kinds. Made in secret by pansexual bakers during the Burning Times so that persecuted pansexuals could identify one another by their food choices. Historians suspect that, thanks to safehouses located beneath pancake-making bakeries, tens of thousands of pansexuals were smuggled out of hostile lands and into the subterranean pan-planetary Utopia built on the crystal ruins of Atlantis. Today, pansexuals consume pancakes in a solemn feast, remembering the many who fell during our times of trial. *moment of silence*
Happy pancake lover, right over here! <3 Yummmm
Asked by Anonymous
Maybe you just admire them from a distance or do you really feel physically attracted to them? Do you want to be intimate? Perhaps pansexual/bisexual with heteroromantic tendencies as you wouldn’t mind being physical with other genders, however, notice that you only want relationships with men.
I hope that helps otherwise do not hesitate to ask again!
Asked by Anonymous
Hello dear anonymous,
First of all, kudos for your self discovery. It sounds like you are also panromantic, something quite common for people who are pansexual. It means that you are able to be romantically involved with anyone, regardless of gender. Pansexual is regarding the ability to be in a sexual relationship regardless of gender.
Many people are afraid of coming out to their family and I think half the time they are proven wrong and the other half are proven right. Ultimately, it depends on a lot of different factors. Religion, upbringing and culture, etc.
I am a strong believer in waiting until you are ready. You will come to a moment where you feel like you are tired of not showing your true colours. When that time comes, you won’t be as afraid of judgement or what other people think because you will just want to be happy.
When that time comes, you will be strong and I think people will see it and feel it. I think it will ground you and strengthen you until you are ready.
That is my thought on the matter. If you have any more questions, you know where I am ;)
Asked by Anonymous
I know that. That is why I said this is rarely the case but there are some that feel that way and that is why I mentioned it. According to what I observe, majority of the bisexuals and pansexuals tend to feel exactly the same about physical attraction. Just like there are some pansexuals that see pansexuality/panromantism as the same and others do not, there are some bisexuals who are attracted to two genders and many who don’t see gender as an important part of the selection process.
I notice a lot of cishet females have trouble dating men who are not cishets themselves. Do you recognise this? Have you ever encountered troubles due to your sexuality? Many of my previous lovers have been insecure that I would leave them for another gender. Have you had this too?
Sexual violence is one of the most horrific weapons of war, an instrument of terror used against women. Yet huge numbers of men are also victims. In this harrowing report, Will Storr travels to Uganda to meet traumatised survivors, and reveals how male rape is endemic in many of the world’s conflicts
This needs to be spread on a global level. I do not suggest the faint hearted read this article.
In general, this could be perceived as the guy either experimenting or falling somewhere within the spectrum that is sexuality - however- this was a pretty poopy Catfish episode.
The guy would disguise as a woman to fully seduce men in relationships as he was cheated on himself. I understand the intentions were good - but to keep it up for more than a year including sexual discussions without attraction - I don’t understand why someone would do that. That is not meant as judgement, I just cannot relate or understand it because I wouldn’t be able to do it.
The other guy was of course heartbroken and the Catfishing guy was saying he doesn’t care at all and won’t apologize or change. He was hurt himself quite badly and I think he hasn’t grieved fully himself, resulting in lashing out.
Check out what the five stages of heartache/heartbreak are here.
Don’t tell me that Gender Fluid is a lie.
Don’t tell me that Gender Fluid is just a phase.
Don’t tell me that Gender Fluid is childish.
I live and breath my gender fluidity. I proudly stand within the Gender Queers in support of a new, gender variant society.
Gender is the seed that has sprouted into the discriminatory, bigoted & bland society we live in. When you dig down deep into the issues surrounding the world right now it all comes back to one tiny little fuck up. The idea that biological sex somehow determines the gender roll of individuals is a lie. In fact, gender rolls is a lie. Just because I identify as gender fluid does not mean that I must uphold any societal expectation, associated with gender fluidity.
Plain and simple, I plan on having two children.
I will not teach my little boy to “be a man.”
I will not teach my little girl what it means to “be a woman.”
Instead, i’ll teach my children to just simply be good people.
Because a society full of good people makes for a better life than a society full of classified, judgmental, opinionated and shallow people.
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I wanna be able to pull stuff like that off… damn.
Love the purple hair :D
based on this post
i saw that post this morning and it cheered me up for the entire day. i would totally love a cute sitcom about two roomies like this! like the pan one bringing home a string of guys, girls, nonbinary folk, anyone who’s down for the sexytimes, and the ace one being a morning person and just kind of making waffles for everyone once they wake up. the ace one going on a date for the first time in years because they’re never sure they’ll meet someone who won’t be rude about wanting sex afterward. both of them sharing clothes and painting nails and just being best buds. cohabitation. friendship. everything. ; v ;
Love it <3