Asked by Anonymous
Indeed, pansexual is often confused with other terms, especially panromantic.
As you mentioned, pansexuality is the ability to be physically attracted to people regardless of gender. I think a lot of pansexual people also identify as panromantic (the ability to love regardless of gender) although I don’t know about whether they are demisexual or not (emotional intimacy required for a physical attraction). Personally, I need to be emotionally intimate with someone to begin a physical relationship, however, I am attracted to people regardless of gender.
People vary and just like there are many types of heterosexuals, homosexuals and bisexuals (etc.), there are different types of pansexuals. On top of this, some people define pansexuality on its own whereas others see it synonymously with panromantic. Ultimately, it us up to you to decide what you want to call yourself (if you want a label at all that is). People will always have different definitions of concepts (whether that concept is love, happiness, success or pansexuality) and so ultimately it is up to you. How you do feel? How do you define pansexuality? Does that fit how you feel? It is important that you feel comfortable with yourself and however you define that.
Asked by fangirlingforfun
Hey hey :)
I just got these strong reactions recently after posting a comedian’s skit that was shared (192k shares and likes) which of course spread my message to thousands of people who may fall under the following categories: a) never heard of pansexuality to begin with b) may not have any contact with the LGBT+ community and c) may or may not be guided by religious convictions.
Indeed, this showed that some felt the need to express their disapproval or anger. And, although I do not get mad, it does lower my spirits so I really appreciate that you lift me up and say such kind words. You warm my heart.
Thank you and love you,
Asked by paige-sais-rawr
Thank you :) I really appreciate your kind words. Those strong negative comments stemmed from one very popular post, but right around the time I was working for my thesis deadline XP So I just took a while to focus on my thesis and also to get back to positive mode.
Thank you for helping me get there :*
I told you. All the men in my life die.
I’m not a man in your life, okay? You said so yourself. I’m a little shitpot.
God I fucking love her.
Miss Rosa was definitely up there for my favourite characters of season 2. She is so brilliant
I support happiness.
I support love between two persons or more people. (regardless of sexual orientation, race, gender etc)
I support you.
We support you.
We support happiness.
We support love.
We are you.
You are us.
#youhaveoursupport #equalrights #marriageequality
okay so i don’t get how people think bi/ pan/ asexuality don’t exist when there’s this thing called
which is literally not a real sexuality???
like it’s an excuse for straight boys to wear pretty clothes???
like “I’m a metrosexual” are you a train fucker???
Choo choo is so sexy to hear…
Asked by Anonymous
Hey hey hey :)
I believe majority of my blog’s recent attention is coming from this post (since it has the largest spread with approx 150k likes/reblogs)
It is leading to new positive and negative results - although it seems the positive is more through new followers and direct reactions to the post, and the negative reactions seem to inspire anonymous expression.
Thank you for your support though - I appreciate these messages immensely. It definitely takes some self power and energy to deal with those unpleasant encounters and these sorts of messages help with that :D :* Kisses!
Asked by Anonymous
Luckily, I do identify as myself as well as pansexual because that is what I am. I also identify as human, food enthusiast, and creative to name a few things. As the common quote goes:
You are what you make of yourself.
Spreading awareness of pansexuality is something that I noticed helped others. It helps people to understand a term that is not common knowledge and that brings some clarity to people. People that are possibly lost or, even worse, have everything in their surrounding telling them that they cannot feel that way nor should anyone act upon feelings that fall outside the hetero norms of society.
I am not a self proclaimed expert and get my information from various sources including people high up within the LGBT+ community, online verified sources and others - though I try to take everything with a grain of salt. Sometimes I create my own posts with the purpose of making visual appealing items that reflect feelings felt and experiences. Just like my poetry, not everyone will like it - you being proof.
Although your post claims such, I don’t think I am ‘cool’ for being pansexual or better than anyone else. Something I end up repeating this peace of information because it seems people would rather anonymously accuse someone as conceited and ignorant based on a name and one post rather than investigating a little further. I don’t think sexuality or preferences create superiority in anyone.
The post you refer to was not created by the comedian, it was the creation of someone who had seen the video and written it out for the world to see. The skit was part of a larger act and therefore did not have a title.
The main goal I have in life is to spread love, acceptance, respect and joy to others. One of the ways in which I do this is try and share the learnings as I learn myself and knowledge thus far. If I have offended you I am sorry, that is not my intent. There are others who have reached out to me with positive feedback about this information. I know there will always be backlash, but I consider those helped more significant than those who hated. I hope you someday live the love like I do.
Asked by Anonymous
Is this a new version of the age old rhyme?
Roses are red violets are blue
Pan sexuality is bullshit and do are you?
Unfortunately for this rhyme, I can assure you that pansexuality and I are not made of bull excrement and do in fact exist.
But I tell you what, I shall bring this information with me to the next “We are Pansexual” meeting and let the group digest the news.
Perhaps the term has not yet been explained to you? If so, feel free to have a look on my page and FAQs, those should help you loads with that matter. If you wish to have a conversation/discussion about it, feel free to contact me, that wouldn’t be a problem.
Thank you for your opinion and I hope I have given you adequate guidance to get to know more about pansexuality.
Asked by togainunochii
… Sexuality but a point of view. I myself could have only ever felt attracted to women not because they’re women but because if their personalities, and say ‘but since I like personalities and not necessarily their boobs and vaginas I could be with a man’ but what if that never happens? Am I really a pansexual?
I don’t think I am oh so special because I am a pansexual, I think love is beautiful and everyone has the right to it. Actually, I am trying to spread the message that everyone falls in love with the personality and soul. That is why I avoid saying hearts not parts, as that is how everyone tends to feel anyhow.
As reflected on this post:
I would like to mention that I share my love for my sexuality with you all without any intention of suggesting it is better than anyone else’s or comparing it. When I talk about love not knowing gender, I mean that all love is equally beautiful - regardless of which gender/ethnicity/etc the people are in the relationship. I don’t think pansexuality is anything better than anything else, I just try to translate and share how I feel to give clarity to others. Pansexuality is Perfect because it fits perfectly what I feel - heterosexuality/asexuality/bisexuality and all other sexualities are also perfect if that is the identification that lets you explain how you feel. Yes, labels are not always necessary but it feels good when you find the right one. Just know that I love you all, regardless of your sexuality. I love you because you are beautiful.
Here is some more of my beliefs/contributions:
As the quote on my page reiterates:
Love is my way of life: love doesn’t know distance, gender, colour or race. It is all consuming and beyond compare. The journey through your heart is through the soul. I hope everyone is blessed with special someones in live. Live life & love.
I try to spread awareness and love to the best of my abilities.